fear and loathing

Dec

26

2012

A woman with curves.

  When men say that they like, “a woman with curves” what they mean is chest curves and ass curves. They don’t mean, “Yes, please have a little tummy that spills over the top of your underwear.” They mean, “I love big boobs.” They don’t mean, “Girl, I love it when you gain 10 pounds [...]

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Posted in: fear and loathing, let's just talk from our hearts

Full disclosure: this post is sponsored by AZO. Keep it real, ladies. The holiday express is choo chooing down the track and you either have to hop on or jump in front of it. Hopefully, you jump on it. If you jumped in front of it, you can’t read this anymore. Because you’re dead. Because [...]

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Posted in: dating, fear and loathing, let's just talk from our hearts, party, relationships, sex

Disclaimer because this post will probably upset people: to the guys I’ve been out with on OKC lately, who are probably not even reading this, this doesn’t refer to you, so calm the fuck down, even though you pretend you don’t care, but you totally do, because all anyone wants is to be flattered, especially on [...]

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Posted in: dating, fear and loathing, no i'm not drunk, no seriously I'm not drunk, Oh that's dark, rampant use of the word fuck, relationships

Full disclosure: this post is sponsored by MyAKA.    I’ve written about online dating before over here. Online dating is great for when you’re lazy and want to shop for a date the same way you shop for vintage leopard print coats on Ebay, which is what I used to do when I had money, which [...]

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Posted in: fear and loathing, life lessons

Oct

19

2012

Sexy costumes suck.

Halloween is a big deal to me. As a kid I always loved dressing up. I took great pride in my costumes. In 10th grade, I dressed as Alex from “A Clockwork Orange” and no one knew who I was. My dad thought I was Liza Minelli from “Cabaret” and most of my friends said, [...]

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Posted in: clothes, fear and loathing, lighten up it's just fashion, nostalgia, video

Jul

24

2012

I does what I does.

Why is it so hard for me to do this? Is it depression? Laziness? Is it a desire to seem deep and mysterious, sitting my dark apartment with wine and this melancholy mix (or something) as my soundtrack? And please feel free to suggest songs that I can add to it, because I welcome everything now. [...]

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Posted in: fear and loathing, i don't even know, let's just talk from our hearts, Oh that's dark, this might be a stupid post

A while ago I wrote a piece for my blog titled “Stop hitting on me” that people both praised me and critized me for. I think the criticisms came from people thinking I was bemoaning how hot I am and how I’m sooooo sick of male attention. Not even close. I don’t think that and [...]

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Posted in: celebrities, fear and loathing, let's just talk from our hearts, Los Angeles, party